Shades of Nature

Simple thing for a person might be never understandable thing in whole life for another and to think that why doesn’t he get this simple thing creates whole situation. Yes things are same but their simplicity or complexity, any other forms and factors depends on how it is looked. Situation is barely touched by the phrase ‘Beauty lies in the eyes of be-holder’ or by the story of ‘Elephant and blind men’. You are getting frustrated over a contestant who is struggling to answer a simple question in your favorite TV shows. You almost shout answer in front of TV and get fumed why does these idiots get selected for such shows? Yes this is just a simple example.

Don’t you think there are such things and situations raised due to such things can tense relationships? You know your friend is in love with a person who for some reason is not of good conduct or behavior in your view. You tried to convince your friend to stay away from that person but he is not getting your point. Why is that two friends with very nice chemistry and matching wave lengths for so many years can’t understand this simple thing now? I don’t think there is any common rules or framework for all these situations as to justify when and why this will happen. I don’t believe there is any book explaining ‘100 ways to tackle such situations’. It’s completely abstract, inexplicable and weird(Weird: things we don’t understand and can’t talk much about). Knowingly, unknowingly everyone of us passes thru such moments at very steps of life and severity of these things vary. Some are kind of ‘Forget it…’ and some are ‘Life changing’.

How far would you go to explain a thing to your friend which he is very keen into and you know he has chosen a wrong path? Can you go till breaking a friendship? Yes. No. May be. Things get complicated when in some situations you are also not sure what’s fair and what’s not? What if you convinced someone to listen to you and after a period of time you realized that you were absolutely wrong? Can you make up for the time passed? Can you forgive yourself? Can you dare to confront the same person?

Things may not be same as they appear and even if they are still can differ in different pair of eyes.
Should I call it shades of nature?